The Spell of Society & Media -

Its very interesting to think about the fact that we are all under a " spell" ruled by society . In life we start out as young children who just simply live . We go to elementary school and suddenly we're grown up . Middle school comes, and we feel a transition happening . The transition of learning things outside of our households. We continue on to  high school and BOOM we forgot who we are. To an extent. We take on habits of our peers and we try to fit in. We follow trend and just want to fit in with the crowd. As adults we are now stuck between a rock and a hard place because we don't fully understand ourselves . We have no idea what the heck we are doing , what the heck we want to do , and who the heck  we are ! We're searching for satisfaction somewhere other than inside of ourselves. We over think everything , assume and take everything people do or say personally. How did this all happen ? How did we forget to be child like ? Why did we lose ourselves so ? How do we get back to that "simple" frame of mind ? Once  adults , we see what life is really about. We see that society and the media form our way of thinking. We see that we don't necessarily believe in everything our parents or the pastors told us.We begin to form our own beliefs.  Wondering " why didn't I learn this in school? " We want answers and we want them now ! We soon realize we are under a spell of society . Society tells you that there isn't enough for everyone , go to college or you won't be successful , you aren't  skinny enough , watch the news to keep up with the  world ( not to mention the news is about 90% NEGATIVE) . Always freaking us out and has our mind all twisted . We have to find a way back to this place of balance , back to this place of loving us and being in tune with ourselves as well as one another . If you crave consciousness like myself you will be released . I had to wake up and step into reality . I was being controlled by the news , by doubt , by fear , by SOCIETY. I read a lot of books , I had to let a lot of friends go that didn't understand me, I had to learn discipline . Discipline to be child like all over again. I had to practice not caring what society thought about me and my ways . I had to learn to love myself and my dreams so much that know one else's opinion could shake me . I had to not be scared of the " recession " . I had to learn to be free and only accept / believe in the good . In about 2 years of practicing and transitioning I finally became free of the way society trains us . I don't believe in taking medicine , I don't believe in watching the news , I don't believe in bad . I had to train myself to have a positive mind frame as much as possible . I am still human , I have my moments ! I have to say though ,  my good out weighs my bad hands down! I choose not to focus on it . I don't allow society to try and mold me as it once did. That wasn't fun . I felt like I was in jail. Each and everyday practice on being child like. Say whats on your mind , follow your heart , don't over think , be grateful and smile ALWAYS ! Even when you feel like there is no hope left, dig deep and pull that hope to the surface ! Your still living for a reason .

" For everyone who asks will receive , and anyone who seeks will find!" - Matthew 8:11

Peace & Blessings
Xoxo- Felicia La Tour

Tutorial Tuesday !!!

Woo Hoo !! We in here Ladies !!! This week I am teaching you about night foundation ! This is when we get that highlight poppin and that Contour rockin !! This is a look that I wear when I'm doing my clients that are going to an event or even on myself when I'm ready to turn some heads !! Lots of personality in this tutorial so pay attention and follow along !

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour 

Who said it was going to be easy ?

I've been on my " walking by faith " makeup journey for a few years now and I have to say , it is anything BUT easy . I have my days where I want to just give up , I cry to myself and ask " What are you doing ?" I smile and am happy for the majority of the time but trust me , I have my moments hands down . Sometimes we give all that we have and we feel as if it isn't good enough . We have these feelings like it is never going to work or maybe you don't deserve what you are wanting . In moments like these I deal with my emotions. I cry , I scream , I ask the " why me " question and I let it all out . Comparing yourself to others will get you knowhere . Everyone's timing and journey is different . Everyone has their own mission they are on in life . With that being said , don't compare . Ever . Like I was saying , in these moments I deal with my emotions . Soon enough a little voice comes along and says " don't give up , keep fighting , you're doing everything you can, be PATIENT !" Than I'm back to reality . The biggest part of getting through that phase is dealing with it . Its ok to cry and get frustrated , we are human beings . We all have our moments , our rough times , ecspecially when your not trying to find the easy way out of life . I just wanted to share this message to remind us all that when we are going through it , just know it'll all be worth it. Stand strong and with faith remember that " this too shall pass." I believe in my heart that whenever I feel this way I make sure I speak to my creator and he speaks back . DO NOT GIVE UP!! If  I'm not, you can't ! We are in this together , several of us all around the world . We are all going through the same struggle and just know when its all said and done and you're wiping the tears off your cheek sing to yourself " Don't worry , about a thing , because every little thing , is gonna be alright …. " Peace and Blessings to all my brothers & sisters in the world . May we continue to grow together and rejoice in our struggle together . YOU ARE NOT ALONE !

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour 

The Company You Keep -

Have you ever gone through something real crazy in life and you don't know what to think or do ? You scroll  through your contact list in your phone and think to yourself , " who can I reach out to ?"  One by one you're scrolling until you see the first name of a person you know that will be so open and understanding . This person always comes with no judgement attached. They  always seem to see your point of view and understand you . Whoever that individual is (being family or friend)  they love YOU for YOU . This person also reminds you of what a dope indvidual you are and makes you feel like everything is ok when 5 minutes prior you felt the world was over . Keep this person around . This is how friendships should be . You shouldn't have to sugar coat , hide , or feel judged by any one close to you . A big reason why we all need company like this ,  is they  teach us how to be better people all around . We begin to have open arms and pure love flowing from us abundantly . Someone who forgives , listens, loves and trusts . Someone who lets you rant without ever interrupting you . Ahhhh the best ! We all need that person !!  If you can identify these people in your life ,  don't forget to say thank you !!! Learn from them and always keep them close ! A wise man once said " You are the five people you surround yourself with most ." Choose wisely and look out for these characteristics .

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour

*Note to self : I've learned to tell myself " If the energy doesn't click , let it go ." I don't waste time on pointless relationships . I make sure I preserve my energy for when I need it most, or when those that deserve my energy are in need . You can't be everyones friend. Start listening to your intuition , and let go of things in your life that no longer serve you any purpose . Its called SPRING CLEANING !! :) 

Tutorial Tuesday !!!

Todays Tutorial release is all about eyebrows !! My favoriteeeee thing to do makeup wise ! Eyebrows are the most important part of the face because it frames everything . Now I know brows are in trend BUT a lot of us need help with them ! Some over fill or over carve out our brows and it doesn't look natural . My youtube will show you two seperate ways to do your eyebrows so its customized to each person. When I'm doing makeup I never do my clients eyebrows the same being each client has their own style and its important to me to customize their look at all times.  A big tip before starting your eyebrows is MAKE SURE THEY ARE WELL GROOMED ! I request all of my clients to do this . The more out of control they are the more makeup we have to apply to hide that fact . I personally love getting my eyebrows threaded and some love to get them waxed. Please ladies DO NOT OVER PLUCK ! I've had sooooo many clients that wish they would've never over plucked their eyebrows and now have very thin eyebrows and no shape. Follow along with this tutorial and change your whole eyebrow game ! Tell a friend as well :)

* Click tutorials in the upper column and go straight to the eyebrow tutorial !

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour 

Vitamins everyday keep the doctor away -

A daily vitamin for women is so necessary !! Some of us don't get enough nutrients in our diet to keep up with our health . Our bodies need several different things for our hair , skin and nails to grow & glow  . Keep in mind that if the inside of your body is in good shape , the outside will be fantastic ! You can't fix the outside without fixing the inside. This is something to keep in mind with everything in life ! Just like you can't create a positive environment with a negative mind set . Work on the inside and the outside will come together ! These are the vitamins that I take daily . I began to take this after noticing my diet was lacking in certain departments. This helps me stay on point with my necessary nutrition intake and I feel good when I keep up with it . I have way more energy and I feel pretty :) who doesn't want to feel pretty lol !!! .

Enjoy and let me know what you think !!

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Fee La Tour

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Learn to Calm Your Mind ….

Alrighty, so idk about you but for me I use to always have these moments when my mind would just run wild . Out of control and filled with negative thoughts of failure , lack of , and doubt . Slowly but surely I began to gain control . It wasn't easy but I knew I had to gain control of my mind so that my world around me would change . I began to read several books on what happens when I let my mind go into a negative state .  I was freaked OUT ! I was creating madness in my life with all of these thoughts. As they say I was " blocking my own blessings " . I was my own worst enemy . I wasn't loving myself and was beating myself up mentally . Life isn't meant to be miserable and unhappy all the time , but that was the life I was choosing. I have a few things I do to keep my mind positive through out the day. I listened to motivational speakers , Played Reggae music ( all positive and full of life / hope ) , I would go on a walk ,  pray for peace of mind, and stay productive in things I enjoyed doing . I didn't want to live in my thoughts 24/7 . I was tired and drained . Tired of worrying, tired of creating my own madness. The best thing I did was take that first step . The first one is the hardest because doubt tries to come and rob you and has you back at square one all over again . I conquered my mind , I mastered the way to use my brain and its power . Without your mind on the right track you can not manifest things and be happy . It is your mind power that creates your world around you .  The first step into thinking positive is to check yourself. Recognize when you're speaking negative , recognize when you're feeling anything less than happy. Talk to yourself , put yourself in check and hold yourself  accountable ! Forgive yourself for beating yourself up  most of all. Keep doing this until it is second nature for you to be positive. Everyday is another day to try your hardest . You begin to manifest happiness all the time, and start to embrace yourself a lot more . We all want to be happy , we all want to be loved . You are not as " different " as you think. Yes you are unique but trust me , it starts with self discpline. Its the ones that actually take action into doing , that manifest their heaven on earth.

Peace & Blessings 

Xoxo- Felicia La Tour

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Enjoy Life's Journey ...

In life we tend to over think everythingggggg. Maybe not all of us, but a large amount of us . I've learned through experience that the story is already written . We can't control anything but our thoughts and choices throughout the  day . We're always wondering what the future holds and living in fear of  " whats next " . So caught up in the future that you're missing the beauty in the present moment . Its a simple task of " Let Go , Let God" (whoever you label as your higher power, to each is own ) . I remember trying to live a spirtual lifestyle as well as trying to follow the layout of society . Over time I realized that following faith and my heart was the best decision for me. Never knowing where my next meal or pay check was going to come from, went from scary to exciting. I learned that when I "Let Go and Let God " I was truly living . I was simply "being" and appreciating the present moment. Taking each lesson and learning process as a blessing. They are tools to put in our back pocket while walking through life. Just trust your heart, Listen to it very carefully because it won't steer you wrong. ENJOY this journey because you only get to do it once. Go hard for what you believe in every day and don't let others opinion on you shake you . Like they say , " you're created to stand out. " Do you Boo , ALWAYS !

                                                               PEACE & BLESSINGS

                                                                 Xoxo- Fee La Tour